In the chapter “To Prevent Flare-Ups”, when Benji states, “we were a made for TV family” he clearly means and goes on to explain how his family use the TV as an avoidance mechanism, so that they can spend as little time communicating with each other as possible (Whitehead 207). But it is also interesting to explore the double meaning of this phrase, in which Benji’s family are the ones being broadcasted on TV. Benji admits at the beginning of the chapter that on paper, his family is pretty much perfect just as a family on TV would be. And in his perfect on paper family, Benji’s dad is clearly the ring leader. Benji’s father’s attitude toward having an “audience” (meaning the outside world) is strange, he seems to either enjoy the attention or at least not particularly care if the “audience” discovers the abuse that he dishes out, probably because he views his abuse as justified. However, appearances do matter to the father in most other situations, which we see as he puts pressure...